I turned down a sure thing last night. I was in his lap, I kissed him, I was attracted to him, he was smart, made me laugh and he was leaving in a month, so no further carry on required.
So why did I not wake up today in a strange bed worrying about the walk of shame?
Because I think guys have stopped making an effort now. He expected that I would immediately leave my friends to go back with him. He did not even offer to buy me a drink but instead drank mine. (I do realise that sounds quite outdated, but I think thats the least you can do if you intend to get into my pants.)
Have I, and my fellow females, been making it too easy for our male counterparts? Is there no longer the thrill of the chase? I don't mean that we are having too many one night stands. No no no no no, thats something that will always exist whether it be in my life or any body elses. What I'm growing concerned with now is the ease with which we are hopping into bed with them.
So even though I may be promiscuous, even though I like the physical gratification of one night stands, even though I have no qualms about going sleeping with someone with no intention of ever seeing them again, I think I'm going to make them work a little bit harder now.
It seems beggars can be choosers ☺
Good luck in life and love,
Honey xx
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